Diane Keaton typically mentioned her determination to by no means marry regardless of courting a few of Hollywood’s most eligible bachelors within the Nineteen Seventies.
“Right now I used to be desirous about this. I’m 73 and I believe I’m the one one in my technology, and possibly earlier than, who has been a single lady all her life,” she informed Individuals in 2019.
The actress — who died at age 79 on October 11 — had a number of excessive profile relationships along with her Hollywood costars early in her profession. Keaton was a muse for actor-director Woody Allen throughout their few years collectively as a pair, along with courting her Godfather and Reds costars Al Pacino and Warren Beatty, respectively.
Keaton grew to become a mom comparatively late in life when she adopted two kids, daughter Dexter and son Duke, in her 50s however by no means felt the necessity to tie the knot.
Preserve scrolling for a glance again at Keaton’s feedback on why she by no means married.
The Proper Factor
Keaton supplied a blunt response in a 1996 ABC Information interview when requested why she “by no means received married.”
“I believe I by no means received married as a result of I didn’t need to get married,” Keaton replied. “I didn’t select to get married and the folks that I used to be with, it was finest that we weren’t married. I did the fitting factor.”
An Oddball
Talking to Individuals in 2019, Keaton recommended marriage could by no means have labored for her as a result of she thought of herself to be an outsider.
“I believe that I’m unusual,” she quipped. “I don’t know something, and I haven’t discovered. Getting older hasn’t made me wiser.”
Keaton argued that there was “one thing lacking in me” and {that a} husband would want somebody who “nurtured” them, which she was not able to.

Diane Keaton in November 2019. Charley Gallay/Getty Photos for Netflix
“I’m an odd ball,” she confessed. “I keep in mind in the future in highschool, this man got here as much as me and stated, ‘Sooner or later you’re going to make a superb spouse.’ And I believed, ‘I don’t need to be a spouse. No.’”
‘Seduced By Expertise’
The First Wives Membership actress pushed again in opposition to the disparaging principle that she could have been “unhappy” about by no means marrying.
“[I’m not sad] as a result of I believe that I wanted extra of a maternal side,” she informed Individuals. “I don’t suppose it could have been a good suggestion for me to have married, and I’m actually glad I didn’t, and I’m positive they’re joyful about it, too.”
She added, “After I was younger, I used to be seeking to be liked by these extraordinary individuals. I believe I mustn’t have been so seduced by expertise. Whenever you’re each doing the identical job, it’s not so nice. I ought to have discovered only a good human being, type of a household man.”
Conflicted Emotions
Talking to YouTuber Kjersti Flaa in 2019, Keaton examined whether or not she was “actually being sincere” when she stated she by no means wished to “be somebody’s spouse.”
“I did say that and typically I believe that’s not likely proper,” she admitted. “I believe, in summary, it might need been a extremely good concept to be married as a result of I believe it actually is a crucial, fantastic establishment for individuals to get collectively and keep collectively and reside collectively. I don’t suppose I had it in me, although.”
Keaton recommended it could have been “taxing” to have “had the position [her] mom had” as a housewife.
“I didn’t need that. I didn’t need to have my mom’s position,” she insisted. “I noticed that she had lots of ambition that she couldn’t notice due to 4 children and a husband within the ‘50s.”
‘A Completely different Kind of Love’
Keaton careworn in that 2019 interview that, “since marriage by no means actually occurred,” she developed “a unique form of love” for different individuals in her life.
“I actually love the household that I’ve … these persons are actually, actually essential to me and my buddies,” she added.
Superb Husband
Whereas Keaton typically gave considerate responses when discussing marriage, she as soon as light-heartedly contemplated whether or not one Hollywood hunk may change her thoughts.
“Who’s gonna [marry me]?” she joked on The Ellen Degeneres Present in 2015, earlier than replying: “Wait, oh. Channing Tatum?”
After host Ellen Degeneres broke the dangerous information that Tatum was married on the time to Jenna Dewan, Keaton had a tongue-in-cheek criticism: “Channing Tatum is definitely married to another person… not me?”